I was going to write about a very small occurance that I observed in my Family Child Care Home, but decided to write about a movie, I was watching with my husband. Grown Ups had many communication amongst the adult and child, however, there was one incident that stood out the most.
From time to time, we get busy and we take a phone call and children may come up to us at that moment to talk with us. Perhaps if mom, had said, ok dear, we can talk about when I get off the phone rather than try to hold a conversation with two people at the same time. Her daughter Becky was trying so hard to get her attention and share her exciting experience.
Though I must say,mom realized her mistake and tried to correct it. As the movie progressed, a group of children were talking utilizing cup phones. Dad walked in and thought it was great to have the cup phones installed in all the adult rooms. This was a way for mom to talk to Becky in a playful way. We have to find a connection with the child and communicate with them on a level they are comfortable. Becky enjoyed the cup phone and mom used it to explain the whole situation.
Second, she felt really bad when mommy replied that she would put money under her pillow. This was a tradition where her daughter understood the Tooth Fairy was going to place money in place of her tooth. Her daughter feels that there is no Tooth Fairy. Not only was she ignored by mommy and yelled at, but mommy lied to her too about the Tooth Fairy.
"The impatient sounds of fax and answering machines; the continuous clicking of laptop computers; cell phone beepers going off at the most inopportune moments punctuate daily lives. There is little opportunity for silence to speak, and when it does, we are often too busy to listen" (Silen, 2005 &2008, p 81). There were times the phone rings and in the middle of a conversation, the children may approach me to ask a question or say something. I place my hand on the phone and ask if they could wait a minute and that I was on the phone. Often times, I would tell the person, excuse me and place them on hold. Honestly, I can say, if I do not place the caller on hold, I would sometimes forget or the child may forget what they needed to ask. Phone calls are usually limited.
The use of laptop, especially with homework or so, is limited to night time because I my boys and little foster children plus daycare children, who needs my undivided attention throughout the day. One thing I do is make myself available to the children to listen to them and allow them to ask questions. I feel it is important to hear what they have to say, especially about their day and so forth. With my Family Child Care Home, the children are learning about themselves, new things and their surroundings and always have questions. I have to be attentive to their needs rather it's on a individual or group basis.
Reference
Silin, J. G. (2005 and 2008). Who can speak? Silence, voice and pedagogy. In: Yelland, N. (Ed.) Critical issues in early childhood education. (p 81). Berkshire, Great Britain: McGraw-Hill Education. Retrieved from: http://site.ebrary.com.ezp.waldenulibrary.org/lib/waldenu/docDetail.action?docID=10175188
Laureate Education, Inc. (2011). Communication with Young Children. Strategies for working with diverse children. Baltimore, MD: Author
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